Yes!!! I am unashamed about it… I stayed a virgin till I got married! If you would love to find out how and why i lost my virginity at age 27, do stick around😉
Hello blog readers and followers! Good day and welcome back to my safest space on the internet… I have missed writing and hearing from you guys in the comments section so much! I hope you have missed me too ( well, maybe not me but my blog posts sha😆).
It’s been what? Nine (9) long days since my last post on how my period almost ruined my wedding… Wow!!! This is definitely not the consistency I promised a while ago.
Anyways, I am back and promise to do better (it’s really not easy coming up with blog post ideas that the readers would be interested in, you know!) But, what can we do? It’s what we signed up for 😊.
Without further ado, let’s get right into the business of today! From the title and previous posts, you already know I stayed a virgin till I got married. However, in today’s post, I would be sharing why and how I lost my virginity at age 27.
If you’ve been following up on my write ups from how I met my husband, to how our wedding night went, you would definitely be already aware that nothing juicy happened on my wedding night! All thanks to my monthly flow….
A little Back Story…
Being a virgin especially in this age and time, isn’t as fancy as it was in the “olden days” (the time of our mothers). Now, there’s so much pressure to lose it even as a teenager (pressure from friends, movies, TV shows, and so on).
The decision to stay a virgin till I got married didn’t just happen, it took a lot of deep thinking, advice from my mom and happenings around to reach that decision and stand by it.
Let me also add that the fear of getting pregnant, dropping out of school and maybe becoming a loser all contributed to why I chose to stay away from PENIS… You can call me “old-school
Let’s not also forget the bible passage- 1st Corinthians 6:19
You know how you see some ladies and “virginity” smells all over them? Well, that was never me! I dressed well (I was the fashionista of the house… even though my younger brother (Gaga) is slowly taking my crown away from me), I coloured my hair whenever I felt like it, I wore makeup and went out when necessary.
Virgins Can Be Cool Too….
It’s no news, that quite a lot of people associate virgins with being local, not tush, not up to date with trends and all that! Well, sorry to burst your bubbles, that’s definitely not the case… It’s very much possible to be a virgin and still be social😊
I wasn’t going clubbing every friday night, or partying with friends, drinking, smoking and engaging in things people my age will tag as “living the life”, but I definitely still had fun when I could
I am also grateful for the kind of friends I have (the three musketeers). They never made me feel less of a human/woman for choosing to “keep myself” as my mom would always say! I was never sidelined in certain discussions about the opposite sex…
I’m pretty sure someone, somewhere, is saying to themself ‘why all these talk Blessing ?” Well, this is basically my own little way of giving hope/motivation to that young teenage girl or boy as the case maybe, who is about to give in to peer pressure!
It’s totally not worth it to allow others to intimidate you to do things you don’t want to do…
Why I Lost My…..
For the “Why” in my title, it’s pretty much because I got married and it was time to give it up to my one true love 😁.
I think i would drop my pen here (my hand aches😁😁). Plus, I wouldn’t want to bore you any further with my whole virginity story!!!
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Also, do watch out for the concluding part of this post, which would explain the “how” I lost my virginity at 27. It would be titled “my first time sex experience”. And it promises to be very juicy and well detailed! You wouldn’t want to miss it for anything…
Till next time, stay strong!
Xoxo: blairsyn (follow me on Instagram )